The view from my window

The view from my window
The view from my window

Tuesday 16 June 2020

Think I'm in the doghouse!

So the Swiss/French border (and as far as I know the French/Italian border) opened up yesterday and it feels like such a relief. Not that I crossed the border first day or anything but just knowing that I can is a great feeling. I have a few doctors' checkups that are now overdue so it will give me a chance to catch up on them. I lived in Switzerland for a total of six years so I've tended to keep my specialist doctors in Geneva, even though it's more expensive than in France. Trouble with France though is you can wait six months for an appointment, hence the decision to just stay with Switzerland. On Thursday night I'm going into Geneva for dinner with an old colleague, so now I'm all excited to be (a) crossing the border, (b) going out to dinner like a real grown-up, and (c) with a man!!! I know. It'll feel like Christmas and my birthday all rolled into one. Well actually just being able to speak face-to-face with another adult will already feel pretty good, to be honest!

I was reading the local Swiss news this morning and see that there are already articles in the paper about Geneva residents crossing into France to do their grocery shopping. Of course there are always the snide comments about "they come over here and take our jobs" and the reverse comments about "so you don't want us coming over there 'taking your jobs' but it didn't take you too long to come over here and do your grocery shopping did it!", but for the most part I understand it. The Swiss franc and the euro are not quite at parity (but for the sake of argument let's say they are, and the Swiss franc is pretty much 1:1 with the dollar), but one guy was saying that even shopping at ALDI or LIDL in Geneva he would spend SF 250 for a shopping cart full and here in France he would get a fuller cart for €150! So you can see why they would do it can't you! The bigger shock for me, though, was when one lady said that rump steak in France is €25/kilo and in Switzerland SF 72/kilo!!!! Wow! I've always known Switzerland was expensive and indeed spent a fortune grocery shopping for the three of us when we lived there, but I guess I'd forgotten quite how expensive it is!

In other news, I've been following the story about 22 year old Marcus Rashford, the Manchester United and England football player, who wrote a very eloquent letter to Members of Parliament imploring them not to stop the free school meals programme for poorer children when the official school summer holidays begin. Apparently he has been working behind the scenes for quite some time helping to raise £20 million to support food banks and help fight child poverty. The government had been continuing free school meals to eligible children during lockdown but had announced the end of the scheme for the summer holidays. Marcus took it upon himself to write an open letter to MPs imploring them to maintain this programme. As the child of a single mother who worked full-time but only earned minimum wage he stated that the free school meal was sometimes the only meal he had some days growing up as a poor kid in Manchester. And guess what, the government have backed down and will be continuing the free meals programme throughout the summer. Well done Marcus!

Marcus Rashford

On Saturday we had our latest board game evening at my place. We discussed beforehand whether we wanted to meet in person or via Zoom again and we voted unanimously for "in person" as there are no longer any restrictions in private homes. There was no "social distancing" as such because you just can't do it when you're all seated around three tables but we were all comfortable with the set up. Initially we were supposed to be 10 but then Adeline asked if she could bring her boyfriend so we ended up being eleven but that was fine. Yet again the food was lovely and I was really pleased with the way my spinach and ricotta-stuffed cannelloni came out. My photos aren't very good (I really should use my camera instead of my phone) but we had a lovely time with everyone leaving around 2 a.m.! I then stayed up till about 3 a.m. just tidying up and running a second dishwasher load, but yet again we had a great evening and the fact that the younger ones are asking to bring their friends means we must be doing something right!




Isabelle is a real giggler - and her husband, Philippe, just lost it!



Then tonight my friend called and we had a bit of a chat. I told him that we had been 11 at my place on Saturday night so he pretended to be all outraged and said "but what about me, why wasn't I invited?" I just told him I knew damn well he wouldn't come because he's an anti-social bugger, and that even if he had been here when everyone arrived he would probably have just gone upstairs to watch TV! To which he replied that that was nonsense (it isn't) but it was good to know he was one of my 11th-20th best friends and therefore outside my social circle of "10 best friends"! So yeah, somehow I think I might be in the doghouse again!

16 comments:

  1. Sounds like things are getting back to normality for you, it feels like a long way off still here. I think you might be in the doghouse too! I always thought the Dutchman lived quite a distance away? I'm sure you'll get out of the bad books fairly quickly! xx

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    1. I think we went into strict lockdown about 3-4 weeks before the UK so I guess it's logical that we can ease up sooner too. And given the fact that it really was STRICT lockdown I think has helped (even if we didn't always appreciate it). The Dutchman and I both live in France but he is north of Lake Geneva and I'm south of it. I guess it takes about an hour to get to his place but it means going through Switzerland, hence I haven't seen him in ages. Nah, he won't sulk for long - he wouldn't have come if I had invited him anyway and we both know that. He just likes fake outrage!

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  2. In the US the whiners won and the lockdowns ended sooner rather than later and now there are new cases of the virus springing up all over.
    Americans are dumb.
    Marcus Rashford is smart and compassionate and not at all hard on the eyes!

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    1. Marcus is indeed cute isn't he (but obviously much deeper than his looks too). I don't doubt that we will have new cases springing up (it's kinda inevitable isn't it) but I guess having centralized government helps in this case. What Paris says is what happens (for the most part).

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  3. It is nice things are getting more open for you.

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    1. While we're still not totally open (mainly just intra-Europe) it does indeed feel really good after so long to just be "free"!

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  4. I saw that things had opened up - I am happy for you. Life here is still weird, somethings opened up and somethings haven't. We are still staying at home but that was our lifestyle before the pandemic so.....(yeah, we are boring)

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    1. It's still somewhat "weird" here. I went into one shop today and it was mask mandatory. Then the next shop I went into it was "mask not mandatory but sanitize your hands" so it's not consistent but it is definitely much more pleasant than it was. And no you're not boring. I like time at home too!

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  5. I can't imagine getting together with that many people in the best of times. Well, except for family. But it does look like fun. You are such a social butterfly!

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    1. I think probably 15/16 is my limit but I'm not really a social butterfly. I very much like my alone time. That being said, my daughter-in-law is always up for organising something, as is Isabelle (my neighbour) and Valérie (another neighbour not pictured) so I reckon why not. The other thought is that I really am happy alone and if I don't go with the flow on these things I'll end up a cat lady (nothing wrong with cats, I just like people too)!

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  6. I'm envious of your fun with friends! We've been aorund family more,and my daughter has seen friends, but we have not as several have health issues. I guess I've done park and walk meet-ups. Well done for that football (soccer) player. When athletes and celbrity can work towards good I applaud.

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    1. Getting together with friends/neighbours has been a long time coming. I only got to see one of my sons the week before, and am hoping to see the older one who lives in Switzerland this weekend. First time since Christmas. And yes I was very impressed with Marcus Rashford. He sounds like a compassionate and caring young man!

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  7. Maybe Switzerland is running short on rumps... haha

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    1. I doubt it somehow. Too much "cartel" control. As I understand it there are three main stores who pretty much control prices and they've always been fairly horrendous, if good quality, especially with the Swiss franc being so strong! I can see why people shop in France, even though this area of France is also expensive (for obvious reasons)!

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  8. From 1 to 11 and bed at 3 am, that's some turn round from lockdown. Keep it up, I am looking forward to reading about the next social encounters; partying vicariously is the closest we're getting for a while yet I think.

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    1. I think the UK is now paying the price for not taking covid seriously right from the start - or from switching policy about a month into it. I've been watching the French figures and they hit 29,000 deaths about 5 weeks ago and it still hasn't gone up to 30,000 AND the number of new cases continues to drop 5 weeks after coming out of lockdown. So I guess we figured we're ok to go for it on Saturday night. But in the end you might be right. 11 people for dinner and then bed at 3 a.m. was quite a way to celebrate the end of lockdown I guess!

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