About 10 days ago I received a letter from the old fogies club in St. Pierre (I really should use its proper name I suppose - it's called Carpe Diem, but old fogies club seems to just trip off the tongue more easily) announcing that the entire committee would be standing down in November and they were looking, in particular, for a new president, secretary and treasurer. Well I thought about it for a few minutes and decided against it, but on the bus heading out to the Périgord I asked Marie-Jo (also on the committee) if they had had any volunteers and she said not - and this is where I should probably ask people to fill my mouth with quick-setting cement next time I open it because I vaguely floated the idea of offering to fill in as treasurer! I knew I didn't want president, potentially wouldn't mind secretary, but figured treasurer would probably suit me better. Well her eyes lit up and before I knew it she'd called Christine (the secretary) over and was telling her that maybe I would be joining the committee!!! Why oh why do I do it!
It turns out the reason they all want out is because the current president - who is in her 80s - is becoming somewhat "over zealous" and seems to think that she gets to decide everything, as opposed to putting things to a vote! So then I got talking to Christine at dinner and she was regaling me with stories about "the one" (you know, I say there's always "the one" when I go on my trips) and I was starting to question my sanity. She did mention that if I joined the committee she might be willing to stay on as secretary, so that would just leave the president to be replaced along with the wider group of committee members! I was quite shocked when she said there were about 160 members (!!!) and quite a lot of money in the bank account, so it would be a shame if it all fell apart because people couldn't see eye to eye!
There were two Portuguese brothers on this trip, although having been in France over 50 years, you wouldn't know it from their accents. They both seemed pretty nice with José being married to Christine and the other living with "the one". After a few days I saw what they meant because she was forever taking digs at him with there being something wrong with everything he said (makes you wonder why some people stay together doesn't it). As a "for instance" when we were leaving a restaurant one day I turned round and told her to watch out for the dog poop on the pavement and she barked at me that she was not blind, thank you very much, and could see it perfectly well (I wish she'd slipped in it to be honest)! Then there was "the market lady" who used to sell clothes on her market stall and was such a rude, aggressive woman I wonder if she ever got any customers! As an example of people's feelings for her, at one point she asked "if this place was free" at the dinner table and was told words to the effect that they would rather not have it occupied by her - so she ended up sitting at our table! Apart from these two women though, pretty much everyone was really nice. There was 85 year old Carmen from Barcelona, Collette from Laos, Roger with the bald head and booming voice and 82 year old Christiane who looks about 70 and routinely hikes up the mountains at the back of my house (and who made me feel totally inadequate)!
Anyway, after giving you a flavour of the group, it was on to day two and our next outings. The first was to a local distillerie where they would pretty much distill anything into liqueurs or eau de vie with no part of the fruit going to waste. I bought a bottle of mirabelle plum liqueur and a walnut eau de vie - nice, but not something you'd want to be chugging down too often!
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A google picture of the Bastide de Domme |
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I would give my eye teeth to own this book shop! |
In the evening the owner gave us a lesson on how to cook foie gras! Now I know it's long been held as cruel to force feed geese and ducks to produce the foie gras, which I suppose it is, but our guide was explaining to us that they are only force fed twice a day for about two weeks and are otherwise free to roam. Compare that to battery hens and I suppose she has a point. Anyway, our foie gras was indeed cooked to perfection, but to be honest, I'm still not keen on it. I don't much like the texture so I doubt I'll be partaking again any time soon!
And finally, my neighbour's moving truck came today and loaded up most (but not all) of what was left in the house. She has worked so incredibly hard these past couple of months to get rid of so much stuff and I think even she was shocked that some stuff had to be left behind. I'm guessing her kids will take what's left to their homes and ferry it over to her as and when they can. She asked me if I'll come and visit (as she was feeling a bit wobbly) and I told her of course I will once she gets herself settled! That being said, seeing what she has just gone through makes me more determined to get rid of as much stuff as possible (something I'm struggling with at the moment) because I never want to have to go through a big move ever again!
Yes. There is always the "one". Absolutely. It's like a universal law or something.
ReplyDeleteOh, you know you want to be the treasurer! You'll be so good at it.
Oddly enough in Thailand it was the first time there wasn't "the one" but I guess with a group of much older people you'll always get a few cantankerous buggers! As for becoming the treasurer I really did hesitate. My life is quite busy at the moment (or maybe I'm just slowing down) but I really feel it's important to give back locally rather than just assume these interesting things just happen. "The one" generally doesn't bother me because I can just ignore them, although the French being much more "forthright" (ie "loud") rarely do!
DeleteWell, of course you knew the history. Makes my comment on the previous post almost up there with your rude travel companion. Pardon me making an assumption you wouldn’t know.
ReplyDeleteI wish Europe wasn’t such a long way from Australia. Don’t know how many long haul flights I have left in me. But I’d so love to travel more in France.
As to the decluttering. Yes! I’m getting rid of stuff we’ve kept just in case. Trying to get my husband to do the same with his junk.
Oh don't worry about your comment - I didn't see it as rude at all. In fact the more I travel the less I realize I know! And I know what you mean about long haul flights. I'm still hesitating about going to India, although that's obviously not as far as you coming to France from Australia! In any case I'm enjoying discovering more about France after all this time and when I get to the Saturday post I'll post photos from Sarlat, which was much more lovely than I imagined from outside the town!
Delete"The one" oh brother. He is probably so beat down and demoralized, he cannot fathom leaving her and breaking up their life - some folks don't see you're often better off alone :( Fingers crossed your neighbour can enjoy her new start. Looking forward to your stories as a treasurer ;)
ReplyDeleteHe seemed like a nice enough guy but he couldn't open his mouth without being criticised for something or other. She had a permanent scowl on her face so I'm sure she wasn't a laugh a minute in private either! Sometimes you really are better off on your own!
DeleteI am so lucky we didn't have "the one" on my trip. I've had foie gras and wasn't too impressed. I do wonder though what kind of person says "let's force feed ducks and geese twice a day and see what happens."
ReplyDeleteApparently force-feeding has been done since Roman times so I reckon we'd have to ask ol' Julius C the reasoning behind it. Our guide did say, however, that it was done originally for the fat/grease (which they often used to burn for lighting), not the liver, but I suppose it doesn't matter much to the goose either way!
DeleteI can usually just ignore 'the one' when I come in contact with them but sometimes, they do try my patience. I think it will be very interesting to see how things go as treasurer with that group. I hope your friend does well on this new adventure in life. She sounds like she really deserves to be happy.
ReplyDeleteUnless someone is getting at me specifically - which would be weird because I think I'm pretty non-confrontational - I can usually ignore it too. Having said that, I could never be a check-in assistant at an airline, for instance, because I just don't have the nerves for that. We'll see how it goes tomorrow as I am invited to their next committee meeting and I may find out (a) if I really want to go for it and/or (b) what it would involve. As for my neighbour, she's exhausted but she's flying out to the west coast with her son on Tuesday as her furniture arrives tomorrow already. It's been a slog but I hope she will be happy there as it's what she's wanted for such a long time!
DeleteLaughing at your description of The One - how come she gets to be on every tour bus? We reckon we’ve seen her all round the world in the past few years.
ReplyDelete"The one" seems to be very well travelled doesn't she, although in this case it was "the two"!
DeleteAnd I hasten to add, it's not always a "she" either. Miserable Pete in Sri Lanka takes the gold medal so far!
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