The view from my window

The view from my window
The view from my window

Tuesday, 2 September 2025

Raising the colours!

The weather has cooled down considerably here - in fact it feels like somebody cut the cord on the summer balloon and the autumn balloon moved right in to replace it. Still, with the cooler weather I've managed to get more done around here so I'm not complaining. That being said, the other day I noticed that the lamp next to where I sit in the evenings had a bit of a wobble on it, but when I tried to straighten it up what looked like a cement base dropped out of it, scattering cement all over the TV room. I wasn't best pleased of course, but since I had nothing planned that day I decided to drop it off at the tip and run out and buy another one. There is a small LIDL-style supermarket near the tip and I was tickled to see a couple of African women carrying their shopping home on their heads. I mean, no wonder they have good posture! If I tried that I'd probably end up with scrambled eggs all over my head!

A couple of times this week a camera car from Google Earth has driven by, so I'm pretty sure at some point there will be a satellite image of my backside while I'm working in the garden! One to look out for I suppose, and maybe even a motivator to get back to the gym when I come back from vacation (I'm off to the Périgord next week)!

Last week I had another medical check-up in Geneva and as I was driving towards the border (I always park at the border and catch the bus into town), I happened to glance at my purse on the passenger seat and a ruddy great spider crawled out of it. Now I hate creepy crawlies in any case, but talk about feeling trapped, what with not being able to stop! As soon as I parked I emptied my bag and tipped it upside down but never found anything so I'm hoping Archie the arachnid has managed to escape somehow as he was a nasty looking bugger!

I swear it was this big - although my chest
isn't quite so hairy!

While I was waiting for the bus, I spotted two young girls walking what looked like greyhounds or maybe whippets and it struck me how much the girls, with their long slim legs, looked just like their dogs. Do you think we chose our dogs based on familial resemblance, in which case, I wonder what that says about me because I used to have a border collie mutt! Then when I got on the bus, a man was standing quite near me but obviously not wanting to sit down because there were plenty of spare seats. After a few stops, a couple got on the bus with two dogs and at one point the woman ordered the dogs to "sit", at which point the man immediately sat down too! I guess you had to be there, but it tickled me no end! What's the saying, "little things please little minds (and little trousers fit little behinds)"!

Anyone who has been reading my blog for any length of time has probably realized how much I enjoy going to the lake at Passy to walk. Well this week, on one of the FB hiking groups I follow, a lady posted about how she had been "bothered" by a young man when she was walking in the mountains near Passy. Just a day earlier, Jen had posted a report by another woman who had been more than "bothered" by what appeared to be the same young man while walking round the lake. She managed to get away from him and reported it to the police, so I hope they are on the look out and catch him soon before anyone gets hurt!

I see blogland's favourite troll, Rajani Rehana is back doing the rounds too. The other day I was surprised to see that all of a sudden I'd gotten 10 comments on a blog post, only to find out that this eejit (or is it a bott?) was active again! Still, it doesn't take long to hit delete does it!

I looked after Charlie again last Wednesday and I always try to take dinner for everyone so that Jen doesn't have to think about cooking when she gets home. Apparently my stuffed peppers were "delicious", according to Charlie, and I was told I could make them again any time! Then he was telling me about the visits they'd had to the local fire station and the gendarmerie and he was dead impressed! Later on he was "playing guitar" and asked me to sing a song, but he was less impressed with Old MacDonald and asked if I knew any "real songs"!!! (We're still working on pushing English, as you can probably tell)!

My ex was over here the other week for Elynn's first birthday, so we all went out to lunch and then back to Jordan and Jen's for birthday cake. At one point Charlie went over and sat on pappy's lap to show him his cars and my ex looked at me and said again how much he missed France. To be honest, while he didn't look as bad as last time, I still don't think he looked well. He has a pretty vacant stare and I feel he looks unhappy - I guess he realizes how much he is missing over here. And oddly enough, for the first time in years I realize that I no longer loath him and I can only thank God for that. I hated carrying all that anger around with me but now I realize I just feel pity for him, not anger. Mind you, that doesn't mean I'd want to live anywhere near him ever again, but it is a relief to have finally let go of that anger. He was telling me all about the problems his sister has had with her son who, for no apparent reason other than his fairly recent marriage, has cut off all contact with the family - just like my sister in Denmark did. I know the family well and know for a fact there would be no good reason for this but I guess that can sometimes happen when the new spouse seems hell bent on isolating you. Heck he never went to his sister's wedding, nor did he go to grandma's funeral the other week. I just hope he realizes what he is missing out on at some point because they really are a pretty nice family!

On the Saturday we all went into Switzerland to a park we used to go to frequently as it was just 10 minutes from the apartment we first moved to when we came back from the States in 1989. They've built it up so much and Charlie, in particular, had an absolute blast (as did my boys) - brings back happy memories of taking André up there a couple of times a week in the good weather to wear him out before bed!

And finally, you may or may not have heard about the "Raise the Colours" movement spreading throughout the UK at the moment. It started when someone put up an England flag (the red and white cross of St. George) in Birmingham - and were promptly told to take it down!! This despite the fact that the Pakistani flag, the Ukrainian flag, the Palestinian flag and the Pride flags have been allowed to fly freely for ages! So not only did they not take them down, they put more up. The Council took them down and so more and more were put up. Then they started painting pedestrian crossings and traffic islands red and white (and potholes - in the hopes that maybe the Council would do something about them too). The whole movement has escalated throughout the UK and people are now also flying the Scottish, Welsh and Irish flags - and I'm delighted. I mean, can you imagine trying to tell someone in the States to take down their own flag??? From what I'm hearing, the movement is starting to spread across Europe (Spain and Germany for sure, and now starting in France). Peaceful protest at its best!

The caption under this photo was:
"try taking this one down you w@nkers"!

Manchester!



And the best of all:


You can watch the video here. Pure genius!








14 comments:

  1. Doesn't make much sense that they wouldn't be allowed to fly their country's flag. I did some research. More rules than we have here.
    Changes made to regulations in 2012 widened the range of flags you can fly in Britain without the consent of local planning authorities. UK residents are currently permitted to fly any national flag or any international organisation's flag, as well as many different regional flags. Before the changes, it was illegal to fly a national flag without permission from a local council, unless flown from a vertical flagpole.

    According to the government, all flags must be displayed in a safe condition; have the permission of the owner of the site on which they are displayed; not obscure, or hinder the interpretation of official road, rail, waterway or aircraft signs; and be removed carefully if asked by the planning authority.

    I'm glad you let go of your anger towards your ex. I have too and I feel better for it. My daughter hasn't let go of her anger towards him yet though, hopefully she can.

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    1. Those regulatiions are all well and good when they apply to everyone but the Palestinian and Ukranian flags have been hanging off lamposts for ages - and the Council spent a ridiculous amount of money (around £800,000 if I remember correctly) painting a pedestrian crossing in the pride colours - and this from a Council that is actually bankrupt! And yes it feels good to let that anger go doesn't it, but I think if he lived closer I would still be on edge all the time!

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  2. Was there ever any explanation of why a British flag was asked to be taken down...in Great Britain? Now, we have asshats that fly confederate flags and don't realize how racist (or they do) and ignorant they are. The Confederacy doesn't exist...the war was lost and has been over for 150 years. Almost as ignorant as someone who would fly a flag for a person, then claim they're patriotic. No, that's called a cult. I'd have screamed had that spider crawled out. Not a fan either.

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    1. I was born smack bang in central Birmingham and close to the centre the community used to be a mix, but is now pretty much all Pakistani. My cousin once told me that as he was taking the bus into town one day he saw a sign that said "no whites after 7 pm" (although they were made to take that down)!!!! Birmingham City Council is now predominantly Pakistani so I guess you have your explanation as to why they can fly the Pakistani flag (and light up the central library in Pakistani colours on national day) but they don't want you flying the Union Jack because "some people are offended"!

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  3. Ok, I had to read more
    It was the English flag specifically and it appears asshats there also want to use a flag to intimidate. Meaning and context with message is everything.

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    1. Yes it's the English flag that bothers them most (the red and white cross of St. George). There has never seemed to be much of a problem with the Welsh and Scottish flags but the Welsh, Scots and the Irish are coming out in support - which is wonderful!

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  4. If I remember correctly, that spider was actually superimposed on Connery's shoulder, that being said, spiders don't bother me. And where would be without Rajani's "such a beautiful blog?"

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    1. I didn't know that about Sean Connery. Mind you, I think they'd have to sedate me even for that!

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  5. I'm glad you're getting cooler weather now. We are too and it is so much nicer. How terrifying to have a spider crawl out of your bag while you're driving in the car. It's good that the anger you had for your ex is gone. That is so much better for you in the long run. Time heals most wounds doesn't it? Enjoy September!!

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    1. I was so, so angry at my ex - for his violence, cheating and almost ruining me financially, plus having to buy him out of the house while he was living with his gf (but still married to me) that it really was eating me alive. When he moved back to the US it really helped as I don't have to worry about bumping into him around town, but seeing him again now and realising that "I won" (ie I have the kids near me and in my life), made me understand that in the end, wherever he goes, there he is!! So even though it took a long time, yes time really does heal!

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  6. I oftentimes dont feel any anger and then something happens and whoops, there it is again, acid and pushy. Good for you if you've let go of yours. I can only hope.

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    1. I was so angry how he "got away with everything" at the beginning and everything just seemed to fall into his lap while I got screwed over (trying taking out a $350,000 loan at 53 to pay him off anyone?)!. It was really unpleasant and I have to admit I've been angry for much longer than I care to admit (thought I'd be over it ages ago). But now I see that, as I say, wherever he goes, there he is, and sure as anything he will screw his life up again. For him to tell me that he missed France was pretty telling, but I think the grandkids being at such a fun age too also rubbed salt in the wound. I hope you can let the anger go too (as much as any of us can), for your sake, not for his!

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  7. We are getting cooler weather here in Montreal and it is a great relief. A spider 🕷 like that would scare 😱 me.

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    1. I love the cooler weather. I was never made for the heat!

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