I see I appear to be keeping to my usual schedule of one post every couple of weeks, but then if nothing much is happening there obviously isn't much to write about is there! I mentioned previously that I really like a Youtuber called Cheere Denise and I had been in the habit of listening to her book evaluations pretty much as they came out, but somehow I got a bit behind on that so I've got some catching up to do. I'm still listening to her reading of The Other Mrs. Kennedy, which talks about Ethel Skakel who married the late Robert Kennedy, and hoh boy, this book leaves the other Kennedy book standing! Ethel's grandfather was a self-made man (so kudos to him) and seemingly her father couldn't put a foot wrong either when it came to making money, so consquently the Skakel family grew up rolling in money - and entitlement. Ethel was a real tomboy and an accomplished athlete (particularly in riding) but she does not exactly come out of this book smelling of roses. Her mother Anne spent money left, right and centre, but then thought nothing of nickel and diming businesses to give her enormous discounts, and sometimes also thought nothing of not even paying their bills. (This would seem to be a somewhat common trait amongst the ultra-rich - but maybe that's how they got to be so rich in the first place)! She describes how one of the Skakel sons was given a brand new convertible and on the first day deliberately drove it straight into the swimming pool!!!! Another time Ethel herself was running late for an equestrian event in New York and so decided to mount the pavement and drive straight through Central Park. Again huh????? The Kennedys actually had less money than the Skakels (even though they were still stinking rich) and when Ethel married Bobbie they apparently argued frequently over money, as Ethel wasn't used to being reined in. Mind you, she also said that Bobby frequently went out without any money (a severe case of short arms and low pockets apparently) so Cheere Denise remarked just what is it with these people, thinking everyone wanted to pay for them? She made me laugh though because she said her reaction would have been to drive him straight to the nearest bank! I can't wait to catch up on the latest chapters! A severe case of entitlement meets even more entitlement, so you get entitlement on steroids!
Last week I took a drive down to Annecy to have a look around for Christmas presents. I didn't see anything that caught my eye so I stopped in at the Yves Rocher (beauty products) shop, since I like their products and they are really reasonably priced. As I was sitting in my car having a drink I decided to scan all the products through the Yukka app on my phone out of curiousity, as it reads the bar code and tells you if they are decent products, if there are any dubious additives etc. and everything came out at least 80/100 so I was very pleasantly surprised and pleased, given how reasonably priced they were. I sometimes do this on food items too and occasionally get a nasty surprise, like the pâté I bought the other week which contained a red dye considered "potentially harmful for human consumption" (it showed up bright red), so I threw it straight in the bin. While I know you can't get away from the crap for the most part, I have found it very interesting to see just what is in food items by way of various chemicals and oddly enough the most expensive hasn't always proven to be the least harmful!
On Thursday I decided to walk into town for my pilates class, just to see how long it took, and while it was bitterly cold it only took me about 35 minutes so I'm thinking that will be an option when it isn't raining or snowing. As I was waiting for the bone-shaker bus to take me home afterwards, a man asked me if "this was the right bus stop". So I told him that depended on where he wanted to go. Since it was the psychiatric hospital I told him it was and that he would be there in about 10 minutes once the bus came. I realized he was a patient when he couldn't get the hang of how to pay for his ticket so I helped him with that and then he asked me if he could give me a kiss!!!! While I don't mind helping someone out, I draw the line at that and told him that that wasn't appropriate when you don't know someone. I tell ya, if you want to "travel and meet people", you could do a lot worse than catch the number 10 bus into town!
French farmers are blocking roads again (I absolutely support them) in protest at the EU's signing of an agreement with MERCOSUR, which will basically mean foreign goods coming into the EU at significantly reduced prices and not being subject to the same strict controls. Of course this will absolutely cut climate emissions because it's so much better to ship beef from Argentina to France rather than buying it from your local farmer. Their main target is Rungis, just outside of Paris, which is basically the warehouse for agricultural products going into Paris. They've also blockaded the ports of Bordeaux and Toulouse, the irony being that the entire French Senate wants to vote against this agreement but have no say in it as it's been "decided" by the unelected bureaucrats at the EU Commission in Brussels! You know, Ursula von der Leyen who will not/cannot produce the text messages between her and Albert Bourla (the veterinarian) who is head of Pfizer, allegedly agreeing to multi-billion €€€ deals between the EU and Pfizer during the pandemic (and of which millions of unused vaccines are now being destroyed). Oddly enough, it was the New York Times that petitioned to get access to those text messages but unfortunately nobody seems able to find them!
Farmers are also protesting in the UK but that is about Starmer's government's decision to impose inheritance taxes on farms. Basically it's a land grab so again I absolutely support them. As they say, no farmers, no food - unless you want to eat Bill Gates' crickets! Jeremy Clarkson was out in support of the farmers (he has his own farm - Clarkson's Farm on Amazon is fabulous) and gave the most amazing off-the-cuff speech, particularly since he is just getting over a heart attack. You can see his speech here if you're interested. Anyhoo, I was looking on FB to see where the latest blockades are going to be and spotted a post by my niece, who had been to see her favourite Welsh comedian and commented "just having a cwtch with my favourite man". I always thought cwtch (pronounced cuch) was an English word, and it was only years later that I realized it was Welsh for "cuddle". The things you learn when you get older eh! Anyway, the tradition continues because my little French grandson also now calls it a cwtch!
And finally, the other day (the first day the temperature dropped below freezing) I woke up to snow, snow everywhere (wasn't expecting that, I can tell you) and then a massive storm blew in and around 2 pm knocked the power out. Bloody hell did it get cold quickly. I was sooooo glad I bought those simple rechargeable strip lights a couple of years ago because I have six of them dotted round the house so I was at least able to get around without breaking my neck. I also bought a generator a couple of years ago but of course the time to learn how to use it would have been before I needed it, not after the power went out. We were without power for about 18 hours I guess so I decided basically to just go to bed and read for the duration! My sister and her husband are coming out in a couple of weeks to meet Charlie and Elynn and my BIL told me he will show me how to get it set up while he's here. I had read that if you don't open your freezers they'll be okay for about 24 hours so I'm presuming/hoping they're ok, but to be honest I haven't looked yet (couldn't face it). I'm having the pleasure of deciding where we'll go and what I'll cook because I do miss having someone to cook for and my BIL is an absolute treasure to feed. Then I got to thinking about what to eat on Christmas Day (everyone comes here) and wouldn't you know it, but a post popped up on my FB feed from a caterer that I was very pleased with in the past. Does it sound hugely decadent to just order Christmas dinner in so I get to sit and enjoy it with everyone? Answers on a postcard please!
Ethel Kennedy went to the same college as my mother (Manhattanville, in Purchase, NY) - and they played bridge together once!
ReplyDeleteEthel was apparently quite popular among the girls because she was wild and had absolutely no respect for authority (never having had any discipline imposed on her, I guess). If you haven't already, you might like the book as it would hit much nearer to home for you!
DeleteOops - that last comment was me. Is there a way to not have to input my name every time?
ReplyDeleteI really don't know Bobbie. I think it depends what system you are commenting from (i.e. Wordpress, Blogger etc.).
DeleteI'm sick to tears of the ultra rich. All political parties, nationalities, all seem to think rich means smart and entitled. Just let us all live. We'll see what happens in the US.
ReplyDeleteThey don't live on the same planet as the rest of us do they. And they probably can't understand why I (and many others) don't envy them!
DeleteMy neighbor bought me a tshirt for Xmas that says 'Being a billionaire is a moral failing' - which pretty much sums up the never having their wallet, stiffing businesses activity!
DeleteI find it shocking that anyone wouldn't pay their bills or that they would routinely expect others to pay for them, but rich people??? I think it says more about their entitlement than the state of their bank balance sadly!
DeleteSomething I do for my freezer since we have frequent power outages here in Canada during the winter ..... put some ice cubes in a bowl or in a bag and set them in the freezer. After a power outage check on them and if they are a solid block instead of cubes then you know your freezer defrosted and you should throw out at least all the meat.
ReplyDeleteAh ha, what a wonderful idea. Thank you Kelly!
DeleteI have read a number of books about the Kennedy's so I'll make sure and check out this one. I have an app that I use to scan barcodes for items. It's very eye opening isn't it? On some of our packages I've noticed 'may contain bioengineered ingredients'. It's mind boggling what has happened to our food. I love Clarkson's Farm and will listen to his speech. You have had some very interesting times on your bus rides lately.
ReplyDeleteThe barcodes app is pretty revealing isn't it, going from green (ok) to orange (ok in small doses) to red (definitely not ok), so yep, what the hell happened to our food. And I don't even like junk food so I hate to think what some people are ingesting! As for Jeremy, at one point he quoted someone as saying "well I could buy a chicken from country X for half the price", and his response was "yeah, where they're allowed to wash their chickens in bleach. That's not a chicken, that's a swimming pool with a beak"! How can you not love him????
DeleteOne of the Skakel boys has also been accused of murder, and apparently the family has spent a fortune trying to keep him out of jail, the result of spoiled money. Our farmers are in for a rude awakening because Trump wants to get rid of undocumented immigrants and many farmers have been relying on that cheap labor force for over a hundred years. Just wait until they have to raise prices in order to pay minimum wages. This will break the Mom and Pop farms, that will be quickly bought out by corporations.
ReplyDeleteI think one of the Skakel boys (Ethel's nephew) just spent something like 19 years in prison for the murder of Martha Moxley (if I remember right), but you're right, the rich, like the beautiful, are never guilty are they. As for the immigrants, when Brexit happened the UK lost thousands of Easter European immigrants who worked in the fields, and man could they work. I don't think it was ever as much a problem of illegals, but rather short-term visas, but it was a huge loss to the country in any case, and the farmers knew it!
Delete"Easter Europeans"???? Must proof-read better!
DeleteI just looked the case up and apparently he served 11 years in prison. The case has now been overturned and he is planning on suing!!!!
DeleteIf the food is good, order away, and enjoy your company. Sounds like an excellent idea!
ReplyDeleteI'm more than happy to pay for it in any case but I think you're right. I like cooking but Christmas stresses me as I never seem to get my timings right. Cold gravy anyone? I now understand the stress my former MIL used to have when the huge family came to her place for Thanksgiving. While everyone pitched in, she was still the hostess and it was stressful!
DeleteIt sounds completely sensible to order food from a caterer. Not only does it mean you don't have to cook, it also means you don't have to shop so go for it!
ReplyDeleteI'll take you and Pixie as the deciding vote then. I hadn't even thought of the cost of doing the shopping as compared to the cost of the caterer and there's not much difference to it as I always overdo it! Someone else will bring the cheeses and dessert so all the more leftover for the wine!
DeleteI want a white Christmas. Would settle for some snow now if it won’t snow actually at Christmas. We are having bit of a heat wave at the moment.
ReplyDeleteI’m a yes to catering. You’ll be able to enjoy your day more. As to Kennedys, the one who is going to be Trump’s Anti-health secretary sounds particularly, well just let’s says he sounds a good fit for the rest of Trump’s ministry. His cousin, another Kennedy, has just finished as the US ambassador to Australia and she sounds quite sane and very clever. Quite the family!
I’m travelling to Spain, Portugal and southern France next year in your spring with my husband and another couple. My role is plan our two weeks in southern France - basing ourselves in Nice and Avignon. I’m getting quite excited.
Snow on Christmas Day is wonderful of course (you go all kinda Bing Crosby-ish) and being up in the mountains is wonderful, but it is hard work, all the same. And yes, love them or hate them, the Kennedys are quite the family, although Camelot was a bunch of invented bull as far as I can see (but then isn't it all about PR)! Your trip in spring sounds wonderful. I know the south of France of course but not as well as this region. I'll have a think and ask my kids if they have any suggestions! Lucky you!
DeleteThanks, happy to have suggestions. We probably won’t be driving in France. I freak out driving on the wrong side of the road, and as we are not doing big distances, I hope trains and buses will be enough.
DeleteYou can probably make it around Nice etc. by train and bus but no way would I try to do the whole trip that way. Just my personal opinion though. I was thinking last night though, in Spain they have places called paradors, which are "unusual" hotels, usually very luxurious, but always in wonderful places. Definitely worth looking into (but you would need a car as they are usually off the beaten track)!
DeleteWe are driving hire car in Spain and Portugal, and that part will be more “on the move”, but for Côte d’Azur and Provence, I want to be more in two or three spots for longer. Will look up paradors.
DeleteOh I'm relieved. I couldn't imagine doing Europe "by bus" if I was over 18 and had more luggage than a backpack!
DeleteSo, when I was doing some ancestry research a few months ago into my Scottish great grandmother - turns out her name was Skakel. Common name? Wonder if I'm related to Ethel, in some distant cousin fashion, LOL.
ReplyDeleteIt seems to me that trying to raise the Skakel family must have been like trying to herd cats but who knows - you might find some (very rich) long lost cousins!
DeleteSadly, I think if you saw some of the tax avoidance that's been going on locally with some of of our farm owners (they are not farmers), you might feel more nuanced about the proposed steps the Government has announced on Inheritance Tax.
ReplyDeleteMost likely I would, but of course they're the ones that screw the genuine farmers over aren't they!
DeleteI enjoyed your commentary on the problems in France. This is something I have not seen in the news. Have the dinner catered. I may do that in two years when I turn 80! Have the guy to put the generator exactly where it needs to be and make sure all the appliances you want to run have electrical cords. You can plug more than one appliance in. You can buy an 'extension' cord for a generator. Plus, there is a gadget that has four places to plug items in. I found out all this while someone put the generator where it went. I had to go back to Lowe's to get everything else but the actual generator. I did manage to save most in my freezer.
ReplyDeleteYeah there's a lot going on in France (indeed in Europe) right now but I support the farmers absolutely! As for the generator, my BIL will show me how to work it so I will feel more secure if/when it happens again!
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